The Reason for the Differing Accounts of the Gospels
Why does there seem to be differences in the four Gospels, concerning the different events that the writers recorded? One is that is shows the multi-dimensional aspects of God, His Word and Nature. It required multiple accounts in order to bring clarity of meaning behind each one. Each one brings facets of His Truth that require more than one form of utterance. It also serves as a way to teach people by showing them different angles of the same principles or multiple principles found in the event and teaching that Jesus gave.
Secondly, it shows that God wants to minister His Word through us as individuals. By expressing these apparent differences, shows that our relationship with Him is unique, thus we will uniquely express His Word, just as the four Gospels did.
What this shows us is that each account with its different wording is spot on because it shows different dimensions of the same Truth and shows His desire of One on one relationships with His people, to uniquely express His Word.